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But, I knew that for the sake of my marriage and my own well-being, I needed to stretch myself to cultivate girlfriends. Men and women need friends of Sdeking same gender. It helps to have someone who can relate to you, encourage, and keep you accountable to your marriage.

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Julie, thanks for joining us and for the kind words! Haha — it would definitely be nice to easily find quality girlfriends! This topic in general is one that is difficult to cover, without making it sound harsh to the friends of the opposite sex. Nevertheless, if these friends really respected the boundaries, they actually appreciate the fact that you DO have boundaries. From a personal perspective, when I was single Seeking trusting and encouraging female friend hung out with both sexes pretty equally.

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When you go out on a limb and cut off ties, you made a stand and it echoes in external actions, and internal as well. Doing so, you never have to challenge that internal voice that is heart of all decision-making.

I really, truly appreciate how much time and effort and thoughtfulness you put into your posts (specifically) on solo female travel. Last year, when I was just starting to toss around the idea of long-term solo travel, your writing did so much to help me to start thinking of that as a viable option rather than just a daydream. Ashley McIlwain, M.A., LMFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, speaker, and writer. She is the Founder and CEO of the non-profit organization, Foundation Restoration, and blog, which are comprehensive resources committed to restoring the very foundation of society – marriage. LW, this isn’t normal. There’s a big difference between being secure enough in your relationship to allow your fiance to have female friends and being okay with him meeting up with a girl he 1) used to have teenager-fueled romantic feelings for and 2) that he won’t let you meet.

And you are so right, true friendships are ones where honesty and respect are welcomed. Based on personal experience, my husband and I would both agree with this. Good thing I found a good guy! Emily, thanks for sharing! Yes, the opposite gender co-worker situation can be tricky.

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Veronica, thank you so much for stopping by and for the encouragement! Usually the things we think are the least threatening are the very things that sneak up on us. Ashley, full disclosure, I am a happily married man of 30 years.

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